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it’s always been the same. To change the world, change yourself

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Great essay, thank you Mattias. A man I have a huge one-sided crush on is in the South of Spain at the moment, I worried that he was in Valencia, so I reached out, very sincerely trying to ensure that he was in fact alright and not caught up in these horrific floods the same as my beloved brother was killed one minute texting and 40 minutes later, dead. 40 hours later, I didn't hear back, though I noticed him clearly online. Acts of sincere speech. are surely worth it, even if they are selfish or ethically needed as perceived by you, but there is also the pain of rejection behind them as well.

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